women's war I

can't sleep.. decided to study a bit and go through my hws.. then.. biase laa.. symptom org dah "penat" study.. *yeah right anis solihah* decided to do something else but at least something knowledgeable.. so surfed some websites and was on Portal Muslimah.. was browsing if there were any interesting articles.. then there was this article on women's war.. *hurmm.. sound interesting.. i gez* but didnt finish it up.. bcz after reading half of it.. i remember my own version of women's war and how far men appreciate it..

i once luv to ask my guy frens "which do u like most to see; girls with hijab or without?" basically.. they have two answers.. well.. three actually.. most fav answer

>> tak kesah.. mane-mane pun boleh..
my respond : tipu.. mane ade org tak kesah... mesti ade yg lebih.. dont worry.. i'll be open :)

so back to 2 answers..

>> pakai tudung.. y?
:suruhan agama.. bagus laa die ada islamic background..
~understandable laa kan.. expected reason in a way.. well.. the only reason pun kutt!~

>> tak pakai kutt.. y?
: nampak lagi lawa.. kutt..
: nampak lagi menawan *same meaning with lawa aite? pffft!!*
~but then later on.. they would go on and say~
: tp pakai tudung ok jugak *smiling at the same time* > sheeshh! make up your mind mister!
~and of cuz.. honest reasons~
: org pakai tudung nih.. sometimes look sloppy.. tak kemas.. if tudung pun nmpk tak kemas.. wut more inside aite?
: wuts the use of wearing hijab if u still act like a slut? > mind my language :p
: pki tudung nampak tak up-to-date.. very conservative > well dis was years back before there was even wardina's or any other hijab's fashion out there..

in a way.. the reasons were acceptable.. till now pun.. BUT!! its not the hijab's fault nor the rules.. but the one who's wearing it aite? if u were to wear it nicely, properly.. u would look so nice and pretty.. see how wardina actually changed the view of some people that think hijab is a conservative fashion.. not anymore aite? if u noe how to make it up-to-date but at the same time still preserve the objective of a hijab, its gewd enuf aite? *heh.. reminder to myself too*

but that's not the reason me writing this.. like i said earlier.. this is one of the women's war.. its not easy to face these kind of comments every day.. feels like an alien especially when u r outside of the islamic territory.. but bcz we r obliged to our religion, we stand up for what we are and what is right.. from all those answers i received.. i was terribly touched by this one guy.. his answer was something different..

me : so.. tudung or no tudung?
guy: tudung.. duh!
me : hehh.. jangan laa sbb aku pakai tudung.. ur answer pun shud be tudung.. be honest.. i'll be open :p
guy: nop.. being honest and always been my answer.. bertudung..
me : heh? *sambil angkat kening tak puas hati.. just to poke him around which always jd*
guy: yupp.. u wanna noe y?
me : *nodding frantically*
guy: well.. itu kan suruhan agama *i was half way smiling* and at the same time.. rase kagum mcm mane perempuan tuh boleh tahan pakai tudung utk masa depan..
me :*making faces but have my eyes saying "plz elaborate" *
guy: well.. kite tahu.. woman adalah kurniaan Allah utk lelaki.. teman hidup.. present from HIM.. the whole package was nicely covered.. mcm hadiah.. nicely wrapped.. i gez.. that's why perempuan ada lebih byk aurat dr lelaki.. so.. tudung tuh part of the wrapper laa kan? not sayin a girl tuh mcm barang.. but to show how women are so delicate and beautiful for men, Allah dah mintak perempuan cover diri mereka.. klu that girl dah tunjuk dkt semua org.. its something normal dah laa.. bukan part of the suprise dah.. sape nak hadiah yg semua dah nampak.. the more secretive it is.. the more excitement u'll have when u receive it kan?

and so it is.. was so terharu and proud to have a friend like that *which skang dh hilang contact* and the fact that i heard that answer first hand.. *Alhamdulillah* never thought to hear that kind of answer and never did after that pun..

something nice to ponder dont u think?