Luvin it bcuz we have to or we just want to?

I was reading this one blog that leads me to another blog.. seems that world is very small.. *hehh.. everyone noes that.. duhh!!* the owner was actually sumone i knew.. so..i was reading.. and one entry really made me read it over and over again *plus the entry was short pun* .. the entry was actually sumthing about if u luv sumthing, luv it hard cuz u might not own it.. and it came to me one sentence *kut* i read from an ad.. the longer you keep it, the harder to take it away.. and the blog's owner also said sumthing like, if u noe u wont get it, y bother luvin it? *gewd question!* and the answer to the question was we just luv it.. *well.. i'll keep the answer short cuz.. sumone who might be reading this might noe whose blog im talkin about ;p* anyways.. the question is.. do we luv sumthing becuz we have to or we just want to?
we luv it bcuz we have to..? hurmm~~ doesnt sound gewd but in a way.. a student has to like *luvin* the subject he/she is taking to get a hang out of it.. a worker has to like his job in order to get a gewd... *occay.. ilang vocab* ..... impression *the best i can get for now ;p* from his employer... i can think a lot more but every and each of the thing that i can think including these 2 xmples.. they end up luving it bcuz the feeling would grow within them.. is it 100% true? nop! bcuz u might just hate it till the end... *like me.. hating history till today.. urghhh!! allergy to history* but part of it.. yes.. u might just luv it in the end.. but still.. is there anything that we luv.. bcuz we have to?we luv it just becuz we luv it..~~ now that is true!! i mean.. how come people can go shopping without knowing what to buy and all you know, by the time you are in KLCC, Midvalley, Sunway Pyramid *if it is in msia* or Opry, Greenhills even carrefour aka walmart.. u'd be suprise to see wut u can buy.. just bcuz.. u look at sumthing and u just can help but luvin it.. so?? it's not wrong.. but its not even right.. how 'kelly ng' can it be? tp bukan ke itu sume nafsu? yes.. to things.. properties.. how bout luv towards sumone..? bukan ke itu sifat manusia? maybe i cant categorized things.. materials.. with human.. two totally different things.. kan kan? but still.. both can be applied the same thing.. we just luv it so.. we luv 'em! *hehehe* y cant we just stop luvin it if we noe we cant get it? or is it just us saying to ourselves "no.. you cant have it bcuz.. this and that reasons.." is it? sbb.. all i noe.. people slalu kate.. u can get anything u want in this world if u just work for it.. well.. again.. even though kite usehe pun.. kekdg.. we just cant.. Kite merancang.. only God noes the best for us.. entah laa.. in this world.. there is too much maybes here and there.. we never can figure out which or what is coming ahead of us.. we can only hope for the best and work for it.. if anything happen.. its just part of this drama.. our own drama.. dats y laa kut.. always expect the worst but work for the best.. and of course.. try not to luv things first.. when u do.. u cant go back.. unless u have a very gewd reason that u can just put it aside.. and that is, biase nyer.. u found sumthing better or equivalent but a lil bit different that caught u.. *instead u caught 'em* think bout it.. ~~ i got lots more to say but i am sooooooo sleepy that i cant go on anymore.. maybe i'll continue.. later.. *NiteZ!*