wow!

its been a week hek i've not writen anything? well... what can i say? i'm just too busy with some stuff.. *hehehe* It has only been a week since i started my winter break.. and all i did was doing anything that i want.. watched tv.. watched korean drama *Fantasy couple* maybe i'll watch anime plak after this.. and stuff like that..

This saturday.. i'm heading to FLORIDA!!! can't wait for that!! i'm hoping its going to be one of the best road trips i ever had..after my Thanksgiving break last year that is.. NO other road trip is worth that trip.. *hehehe* this week.. something happen basically.. but i dare not tell.. it's.. complicated.. but the thing.. kinda stress me out.. i mean... i have my own plan and how dare that thing just came up and just tagged onto me like a lil kid??? *ok.. fine.. korang tak faham..*

~CHanGE Of TopiC~

was talking to Jurai and she actually told me something i used to never tell anyone cuz thinking people will never understand.. and i told someone who i think would accept it but.. i guess i should have kept it to myself... basically.. jurai was in my shoe too.. i dont want to tell what it is since the person i told might probably read this blog too... anyways..

It was so painful when i told that person about this.. That person *trying not to mention the sex* could not see how the thing i told that person is hard and a big deal.. and eventually.. that person accidentally or maybe out of a conversation told another person who i knew would really not understand what i just told... it was a big bang on my head.. hearing it from two people who i thought had a very openminded mind but unfortunately, they had a very bad sense of... judgement? taking-themselves-into-the-shoe? i dunnoe~

To think about it.. Do I do that too? maybe not? maybe sometimes? i'll go with the latter.. i might not realize.. but I really dont want that to happen to anyone.. because of me.. When they told me things.. as such what I did to that person... It's about ssomething only one within my closer-persons list would know.. and what that person did was definitely what i would expect from someone outside that list..

Tell you guys what... what i could say now.. whenever you are listening to people's story and they are telling about their own experience.. though they might not use the best way of getting their story over to you.. but being a good listener, you can counter that.. try to put urself in the situation.. try to get all possible facts that would help your acting.. i mean.. when someone is telling u something.. ask them anything related.. they would definitely tell you everything you wanna know..

With that.. u can rationalize why they think or feel like they did and try to suggest from your own judgement.. It might take awhile to get use to it if you are not use to it.. and please note.. this is just something i think wat it should be done.. not a MUST...

ishhh.. ntah paham idak korang nih.. *hehehe*..