Monday, April 02, 2007

Things Happen

IN LIFE.. we have to always be prepared for the unknown. Never take for granted all those variables.. Not single one.. It's too hard to accept when things don't go as you want them to be.. But that's how life works.. All sorts of challenges.. you just have to face them.. No running away from 'em.. they would just haunt you back..

The moment we have the problem, everything seems to be not helping at all.. Everything seems to be a problem.. You can never sit and think the solution but instead.. u make it more complicated and complex... U can only see more problems instead of solutions.. You might not be the person that talks to anyone about your problem.. Is that a problem? yes and no.. YES because its hard to keep things straight when you are all screwed.. My social studies suggest that, by telling people your problem, you'll get things in order.. you can see the plots one by one since your tongue cant go as fast as what you are thinking.. But if you think.. everything is all scattered in your brain and all you can think are more problems.. NO because that is just you and you might have been into lots of problems before and.. you are well trained to solve your own problem.. *hoping everything went well before*

BUT one thing for sure, you have to be strong while facing the problems.. people will try to counter and question your decision.. Being humans that are easily persuaded, you'll think twice but try to get you feet on your ground.. fix it.. Took from Intan's page..

"Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya. Dia mendapat (pahala) dari (kebajikan) yang dikerjakannya dan mendapat seksa dari (kejahatan) yang diperbuatnya.."


My dad once said.. Sacrificing the best thing in your life.. the most precious thing in your life.. the most deary to your heart.. is the best decision you'll ever make.. Being small and never want to think more about it.. I think my dad was just making me do it because at that time I was fighting with my lil sister about a Garfield house slipper.. I end up giving it to my sys.. Nothing really happen that time but when I think about it now.. I know my sys was super happy to have it and I was happy to know she was.. True.. I felt all good about myself and satisfied..

Its nice to have that satisfaction feeling but it's damn hard to sacrifice things.. Especially things u like/love/precious... What if those are the best thing ever and you are about to let it away just like that? Won't you feel regret afterwards? I don't really have the answer to it.. but i know i did.. some.. but i guess.. its for the best? maybe not for me but for others.. others who have the chance to own it.. maybe they deserve it and not me... Not fair? true.. but who says life is fair? God is being fair but people who live in this world make this place seems unfair about everything..

Why.. why.. why..?

sooooooo not fair..!

Who am I to say anything at the first place?


Blogger PeNdEkA said...

it's true if you tell somebody else your problem, you'll get organized and could solve the problem easier..but for me, takut membebankan org lain plak dgn kasi tau diorg my probs and actually its my own fault if something bad happen to me so I prefer to keep it to aku da lame pendam gunung berapi pendam da ni..da terkeluar gak la sikit2..tatau bile nk meletup.

Monday, April 02, 2007 5:56:00 PM  
Blogger juraiza said...

yes talking helps. but letting go something precious...hmm i don't know about that

Monday, April 02, 2007 6:13:00 PM  
Anonymous :) said...

put trust in Allah! Allah will always help you to go through it biiznillah.

And refer to Surah Al-Baqarah- ayat 216;

"..boleh jadi kamu benci kepada sesuatu padahal ia baik bagi kamu dan boleh jadi kamu suka kepada sesuatu padahal ia buruk bagi kamu. Dan ingatlah, Allah jualah Yang mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahuinya..."

No worries, sonick. Tenang2kan hati, dan adukan padaNYA - jika rasa tiada siapa memahami - kerana Dialah pemilik segala hati dan hanya Dia yang Mengetahui segala rahsia hati.

Be tough. Pasakkan keyakinan pada Allah. Selangkah kita padaNYa, seribu langkah Dia mendekati kita, ameen~

May Allah makes things easy on you, ameen.

Monday, April 02, 2007 7:37:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sometimes, things seem unfair when in fact they're not. God has things for all of His creations but he never gives them right in front of us. He puts them just out of reach so we'll find it ourselves. So that we can have the satisfaction of getting it ourselves. That way, we'll appreciate it more coz of all the hardship we had to go through to get it. It's His own 'cat string' theory. We just fail to see it sometimes and we think 'Owh, it was not meant to be' even when we're so, so close.

Be strong sonick, you'll get through this. One day you'll look back and think, 'I know why it all happened now' and you'll thank God for it.

Monday, April 02, 2007 8:19:00 PM  
Blogger *~AnieSoniC~* said...

bahye tuh nicky.. hehe.. kuarkn sket2.. byk2 karang.. sian org yg dkt2 ngan kau..

thanx people.. tho i dont noe ur name.. i think i can guess.. thank you so much..

Tuesday, April 03, 2007 10:10:00 AM  
Anonymous lized said...

aku pon tatau jugak sapa tapi thanx because im currently in a deep shit jugak. oh well - if life gives you shit, you just gotta make shitade out of it. (erm macam lemon and lemonade?)

Thursday, April 05, 2007 9:30:00 AM  

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